If you are getting
mixed signs from your ex, or it seems like your ex is flirting with you or
maybe asking you to spend more time together than before, then it is o.k. to
get your hopes up (don’t overdo it). Maybe you keep on asking yourself “Does myex want to get back?”These are most defiantly signals that your ex interest is
increasing. But even if you, yourself, would like to mend
your relationship and get back with your ex you shouldn’t rush things over.
Playing hard to get seems to be the best strategy here, don’t overdo it, your
ex will respond less to this kind of behavior. If you are going to put in all
your energies into this and start going full steam ahead, your ex will probably
panic and will push you away. In fact the initial reason that your ex was
trying to reach out for you was probably because you were playing hard to get.
Most of the times when you break up with your
ex or he or she breaks up with you, one or both parties will start missing each
other. The more the relationship lasted the harder it would be to forget about
your significant other especially if their relationship lasted for more than a
year. No matter what, your ex is going to miss you, all the things that you
have done together, all the memories over this long period of time that you
have spent together will not fade away into oblivion just like this. It’s easy
to understand, just think about all those common memories of you. But don’t
forget that there are other emotions involved as well and after all there was a
painful breakup in your past. So if you are thinking whether or not your ex
wants to get back with me it’s probably safe to say that your ex is thinking
the same thing.Sometimes showing interest is just a game, just a way for your
ex to reassure his ego in check whether you still love him or not.
They probably just need attention from you,
without really wanting to get back. So this might be badly interpreted by you
and pull you away from continuing with your life. This is why it is highly
important not to jump into the conclusions and you must be 100% sure that you
understood correctly the situation.This happens a lot, and most of the people
ask themselves “does my ex want to be back with me?”, but before answering the
question you must have a clear read on the situation otherwise acting may hurt
your best interest. Don’t forget that if you’re not sure about your ex
intentions playing hard to get in this kind of situation would probably be for
your best interest.
Playing the “unreachable” card will make your
ex desire you on the one hand and on the other hand it would present you from
getting hurt in the case that he was just looking for some attention.Starts
acting naturally only after you are absolutely sure that your ex wants to get
back with you.